Today on the Four of Diamonds in Aquarius, we find the Planetary Ruling Card by counting to the Uranus card in the Waking Spread which is the Ten of Clubs. This reading is primarily about the 4♦️ which is the Birth Card of the following dates: 1/23, 2/21, 3/19, 4/17, 5/15, 6/13, 7/11, 8/9, 9/7, 10/5, 11/3, and 12/1.

The 4♦️ builds a foundation of values including financial wealth. When Unconscious, one focuses on others’ lives more than one’s own, and one rebels against them and against one’s own situation which feels burdensome leading to the need to change things constantly. When Awakened, one gives oneself emotional freedom to respond to personal situations and relationships with erratic changes that are true to one’s personal experience, and counter-intuitively one makes steady progress in all one’s relationships.

In early life, one makes friends easily and cooperates on activities; one is most impressed with creative siblings and parents. One is attracted to those with powerful personal and social magnetism, but one moves through relationships quickly. One gets one’s needs met with habitual communication and it is important to be honest at all times; one builds security only on firm foundations. In mid-life, one works steadily, and it is quite possible to rise up suddenly to a leadership position in business. As one matures, pleasures are sought but not regularly fulfilled, and there are steep costs associated with one’s love interests. As one ages during years 35-41and 65-77 and all the life for those born January 23rd, one is successful in communication fields; and one thirsts for new experiences including romance which come up suddenly, but often are short lived due to one’s love preferences still developing. In old age, one has generally achieved significant gains in value that include self-worth as well as net-worth; one may choose to dissipate while another may focus on one’s legacy.

The Q❤️ Dreaming Mirror indicates that the 4♦️faces difficulty satisfying desires for pleasure and nurture. Pleasure is most readily shared in a love relationship, and that requires one to stay in a relationship. It is difficult to maintain a relationship as one may not have fully established one’s personal values, and thus one may sporadically decide that a relationship is not right for oneself.

The 2❤️ Waking Mirror indicates that the 4♦️ wants to be in a romantic love relationship very much but one holds fantasies about these interactions that don’t hold up once the real needs of both partners begin to manifest into power struggle. Oftentimes, one gets into a quick delicious romance as part of a general escape from other responsibilities; so, it shouldn’t be a surprise that the encounter does not lead to a significant relationship. The benefit of these absolutely wonderful but short-lived romances is one learns about one’s values that one can then apply to one’s own life.

The 7♠️ Sleeping Mirror indicates that the 4♦️tends to grow spiritually through difficult love changes. One is building a foundation of values, and one is using relationships to discover the values one intends to strengthen. Most spiritual programs recognize that relationships test one’s growth; one is sure one’s values have grown iron-clad until one becomes vulnerable in a love relationship and discovers the continuing personal issues one thought had resolved. A strong foundation of values makes living a balanced life accessible.

Building firm values happens fastest when in love relationships and in between relationships.