The author shared his opinion on K♣️ Saturn day in a 4♣️ week. The urge to shake things up is irresistible to the know it all King of Clubs, but in Saturn, temperance is most effective. The weekly card is the Four of Clubs, which calls for Action-less Action (aka pause when agitated).
The direct underlying Jupiter 10❤️ provided full emotional expression with nothing held back. I told my friend the unvarnished truth of my feelings both good and bad. She appreciated the Jupiter 10❤️warm feelings and observations. Unfortunately, she felt that the direct underlying Saturn 10♦️ bad observation was none of my business, unwanted opinion, and destructive in essence. The result of the week is the 10❤️ indicating that full appreciation of relationships could manifest, but the Saturn 10♦️ meant that feelings without earthen change was not sufficient. It is best to change oneself rather than attempting to change others.
Usually when I’m about to stick my foot in my mouth, I get a stammering discomfort, but on this occasion the hesitation was so subtle that I ignored it. The Q♦️ underlying Result card is a subtle leader that does not shout its judgments; one has to read between the line of one’s own thoughts to hear the unsaid. The friend on the receiving end said she was tempted to ignore the untoward remark, and bear a resentment while quietly de-emphasizing her association with me. How often this must happen to me as the result of my sloppy communication with my life path Q♦️ direct Mercury!
On this Saturn Day, the underlying vertical 7♣️ Uranus Ruling Card coupled with my dreaming 2♦️vertical card led me to speak in an unwanted manner in an emotionally enmeshed situation. I was aware that I cared for the person I was speaking with, but I was oblivious that I had unresolved issues of my own that I was attempting to resolve by focusing outside myself. The other person showed me the log in my own eye, and she politely asked me to leave her vision to herself.
She then informed me that I tolerate unwanted criticism from others, and she defended me to myself with passion. This was a compassionate act of the K❤️ shown in the spread as both Pluto and the Environment. Notice that K❤️ is played on the A♦️, my Waking card.
The J♠️ as weekly displacement has caused this event as this combination precipitates reckless behavior. Fortunately, the J♠️ also offers the solution to a problem. The solution is honesty. I am happy to report that I was immediately honest and direct, and the situation was mostly smoothed over.
It would not be accurate to say that it was all a misunderstanding, because there is judgment in my mind and heart that was shared in an unhelpful way that was not appreciated. The beauty here for me is that I was accepted while the judgment was rejected. I was also asked to consider more aggressively negating judgment that is cast upon myself.
The honesty of the J♠️ displacement provided the solution that enabled reconciliation with this cherished friend.