3❤️/3♦️

Today on the Three of Hearts in Capricorn, we find the Planetary Ruling Card by counting to the Saturn card in the Waking Spread which is the Three of Diamonds. This reading is primarily about the 3❤️ which is the Birth Card of the following dates: 11/30, 12/28.

The 3❤️ expresses feelings, makes decisions with feelings, and makes love and relationship decisions. When Unconscious, one maintains a selfish and self-centered posture in one’s relationships, valuing one’s own pleasures over the needs of others. When Awakened, one nurtures the communication of others, using intuition to guide self and others to best thinking and living.

In early life the 3❤️ explores the environment including one’s family and culture with the beginning of intent to build a foundation of feeling and love. One is attracted to gifted disciplined individuals. One is able and willing to work long hours to build a business or financial security. In middle age, one does best to insist on complete flexibility; it is best to be the boss or have work partners that give one great freedom. Financial decisions are stressful when recognizing that one’s actions impact many other people; one grows as a charismatic leader and a mature thinker during ages 28-34 and 52-64 and for all those born December 28. Secrets will be revealed, emotional boundaries will be explored, and pleasures will be sought as one ages. In old age, one will explore boundaries and separations in relationships for increasingly subtle experience of love.

The 2♣️ Dreaming Mirror indicates for the 3❤️ that conversation leads to useful information in relationships. One should attend to hidden agendas in oneself and others. The 3❤️ is naturally sweet and playful, and therefore light conversation is any easy activity. One should use this skill efficiently to learn important details about oneself and significant others. One may find the information is helpful to explore boundaries that can deepen or weaken relationships.

The Double Mercury position in the Waking Spread indicates that thought and interaction are vital aspects of the 3❤️ journey. Openness to information from the world, from others, and from oneself lead the way.

The 8❤️ Sleeping Mirror indicates that the 3❤️ has a powerful charisma, and this powerful personality comes out with great electric power when communicating in relationships. The 3❤️ is known for ambivalence in relationships due to scattering feelings so freely. One also has the ability to concentrate feeling and withhold feeling to help to establish boundaries. Once boundaries have been securely placed or recognized, the feeling one shares is more effectively delivered and intensely experienced. Withholding feelings can be experienced as punishment, but without control of feelings there are no emotional boundaries. Emotional boundaries are a key to successful relationships.

One acts with love by sharing relevant information and controlling one’s own use of feelings as an intuitive vessel that introduces love into relationships with intelligence.